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WASHINGTON — Many of December’s sights and sounds are welcome reminder to most that Christmas is just around the corner.

But one particular noise fills some with dread.

As wreaths and laurels pop up in public spaces, so do the Salvation Army bell ringers, standing on street corners and in front of stores, soliciting pedestrians to put donations in the red kettle.

Though some might say “guilting” is a better term for it.

“All of the sudden people start crossing the street to avoid you,” Salvation Army Major Robert Thomson tells WLUK-TV. “You’ll see people who pick up their pace as they pass by the kettle.”

“You can always sense when somebody is feeling perhaps a little bit of guilt.”

At a time of year when all are supposed to be thinking generously, it can be difficult to walk past the fundraisers without feeling anxious. But experts say it really doesn’t have to be a big deal.

“There are people who really can’t afford to give. There are people who support other organizations and so they don’t give to the Salvation Army but give to something else,” Dr. Brad Reimann, who deals with patients with anxiety, told WLUK.

“So should people feel guilty not giving? Absolutely not. But most of us do have that tinge of guilt and anxiety about not doing it.”

The next time you see a bell-ringer, look at them, smile, or just say “hello.” And remember they’ll be appreciative of any donation, even if it’s just a few pennies.

Major Thomson says 83 cents of each dollar goes directly toward families in need.

Aside from dropping dollars and coins into the kettles, those interested in donating can visit the Salvation Army website or call (800) SAL-ARMY. Donors also can text GIVE to 85944 to make a $10 donation.

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