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Winston Chaney

Jul 22, 2011 at 4:45 pm

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If He Doesn’t Pursue You Now, He Never Will

If He Doesn’t Pursue You Now, He Never Will

A pastor friend of mine once declared during a singles’ bible study that a man knows within three weeks of meeting a woman if he wants to marry her. Recently, a friend recalled this teaching and posted the quote to her Facebook page. Within minutes, the comment thread had garnered over 20+ comments, some rather lengthy, from both men and women – nearly all confirming the truth of the

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Winston Chaney

Jun 7, 2011 at 12:30 pm

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What’s Missing From Our Relationships? Respect!

What’s Missing From Our Relationships? Respect!

Tonight I was out for a friend’s birthday and at the end of the night, it ended up being myself and five wonderful ladies (lucky me). They began talking about and sharing different experiences they had with men approaching them and trying to build relationships (or some pathetic excuse for a relationship). I, honestly, was a little (and some a lot) disappointed in the things they said and

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Winston Chaney

Jun 2, 2011 at 11:30 am

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MEN: Shut Up And Listen, What Women Want Pt 1

MEN: Shut Up And Listen, What Women Want Pt 1

If you’re a man, I’m sure you’ve thought about how complex women are. How they simply can’t be figured out. How they do the most bizarre things, for unknown reasons. (If you’re a woman, it’s likely you agree.) If you have, then you will find this next statement confusing and perplexing. Women are not as complicated as you think they are. They’re actually rather simple.

Before you brush me off as a

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Winston Chaney

May 5, 2011 at 2:30 pm

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Is Joining A Dating Website Your Last Resort?

Is Joining A Dating Website Your Last Resort?

A few days ago, I was browsing through my friends’ Match.com account and ended up stumbling upon the pages of women I attended high school and college with. These women, who I’ve known for years and had never had trouble hooking up and finding a boyfriend in college, seemed to have issues doing so after we turned our tassels from one side to the other.

To me, it was

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Winston Chaney

May 4, 2011 at 2:45 pm

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When Interracial Dating Goes Wrong

When Interracial Dating Goes Wrong


While browsing YouTube the other day, I noticed an interesting ad, placed below a video entitled, “Single black women find the search for love is especially difficult.”
The ad pictured a Black woman with a shirtless White man next to the text, “AfroRomance — Where

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Winston Chaney

Mar 29, 2011 at 5:16 pm

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SURVEY: Sex On The First Date; Do You?

SURVEY: Sex On The First Date; Do You?

A recent survey of 5,000 single Americans revealed that the majority will not have sex on the first date despite them knowing within the first 15 minutes if there’s chemistry. READ ON!

Bailout Plan
31% of both men and women agree that 15 minutes into the date is long enough to tell if there is chemistry. However, only 12% would leave within the first 30 minutes of a date

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Winston Chaney

Sep 8, 2010 at 9:09 am

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Why She Cares About Her Appearance: What Women Want: Part Two

Why She Cares About Her Appearance: What Women Want: Part Two

Last week, in an attempt to help out every man in a relationship, I talked about how, despite what most men think, women are not that complicated. It’s simply a case of men not truly wanting to understand their lady. We also talked about  how she wants her feelings to be heard and understood, not solved. This week, we’ll deal with an issue that many, if not every, man has dealt with — women’s appearances. Men, here’s what you need to know:

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Ron Thompson

Feb 17, 2010 at 9:00 am

If Black Women Adjust Their Standards, Then They Will Get Married

If Black Women Adjust Their Standards, Then They Will Get Married

ABC News recently did a special about successful black women who have never been married.

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Ron Thompson

Jan 26, 2010 at 9:36 am

What’s The Rule With Ex-es?

What’s The Rule With Ex-es?

I had a dream last night that led me to think about how we relate to those we’ve been romantically involved in after we’re no longer involved with them and how should our friends respect the relationship that once was.

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Ron Thompson

Jan 19, 2010 at 10:09 am

Manolos Vs. Maddens: A Lesson About Why Men Don’t Pursue

Manolos Vs. Maddens: A Lesson About Why Men Don’t Pursue

Upon talking with a friend the other day, she brought up the question of men and why it seems that we often lack the “pursuit” of women.

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Jill Parker

Dec 30, 2009 at 1:30 pm

Why Aren’t Successful Black Women Getting Married?

Why Aren’t Successful Black Women Getting Married?

“What is keeping Black women from walking down the aisle?” ABC’s “Nightline” asked this question recently and you’ll be surprised at the answers. Watch the video right here.

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Winston Chaney

Nov 6, 2009 at 11:59 am

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Five Reasons I Hate Dating Christians

Five Reasons I Hate Dating Christians

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Winston Chaney

Oct 8, 2009 at 9:10 am

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Can A Woman Be Too Independent?

Can A Woman Be Too Independent?

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Winston Chaney

Oct 2, 2009 at 6:48 am

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Girlfriend Or Friend With Benefits: Who’s Better Off?

Girlfriend Or Friend With Benefits: Who’s Better Off?

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Winston Chaney

Sep 29, 2009 at 9:56 am

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Friends Vs. Girlfriends — As Men See It

Friends Vs. Girlfriends — As Men See It